Pick Up Your Oar And Start Rowing

April 20th, 2012 by admin


From Email sent to me today from My Daily Insights

 

PICK UP YOUR OAR AND START ROWING
By Michael T. Smith

My boss, two co-workers and I stood behind the hard plastic seats. We were in the front section, on the first-base line at Shea Stadium, home of the New York Mets. We were so close to the infield, there was a protective net over our heads. I was new to the New York City area and had never been to Shea Stadium. These were dream seats. My heart pounded with excitement.

We stood with our umbrellas held high. The rain beat down on everything around us. It bounced off the seats and quickly formed deep puddles on the cover protecting the field.

“Steve,” I asked my boss, “How did you get such great seats?”

“They came from Ed at the office. His dad is a blind sports writer and has a long- standing relationship with the Mets and Yankees.”

The game was called due to rain. We left the stadium disappointed. On the long subway ride back to Jersey City, I wondered about the man behind the seats. How could a man be blind and be a sports writer?

Years have passed since that rainy night. Old friends back in Canada often ask me, “Mike, have gone to a baseball game in New York yet?”

I say to them, “I’ve been to a few, but let me tell you about
the best seats I ever had but couldn’t use.”

Whenever this happens, the memory of that night comes flashing back. I wonder about the blind sports writer. What was his story?

It had to be special.

I sat at my computer one night. An email popped into my in-box. I didn’t recognize the return address. The subject line said, “Inspirational SI article about my dad, Ed Lucas.” I was curious.

I opened the email. It was from a gentleman sending me a clip of a story written by Steve Rushin for Sports Illustrated. It was a wonderful read about a special man. Through the article and the man who sent it to me, I learned the full story. The following is a synopsis:

Twelve-year-old Ed Lucas ran home from his school in Jersey City. It was October 3, 1951. He arrived in time to see Bobby Thomson win the pennant for his favorite team, the New York Giants.

After the game, Ed ran out to play ball with his friends. During the game, Ed was hit between the eyes by a line drive. The force of the blow detached both retinas, leaving Ed permanently blind.

Ed became depressed. His mother, Rosanna, took matters into her own hands and took Ed to a Newark, New Jersey men’s store.

There, she introduced him to Phil Rizzuto, a part-time employee of the store and a Yankee star. Phil befriended Ed.

Rosanna wasn’t done yet. She wrote the Giants Manager, Leo Durocher, about her son. Leo asked her to bring Ed to, what was then called, the Polo Grounds. On June 14, 1952, young Ed sat in the clubhouse with the members of the Giants. It was the beginning of a special relationship.

Ed enrolled in St. Joseph’s School for the Blind in Jersey City. The nuns were demanding. Ed learned to make his bed and match his clothes. If he whined about being blind and not being able to do what other kids could, Sister Anthony Marie was quoted saying, “Isn’t that a shame? We’re all in the same boat here, Ed. Pick up your oar and start rowing.”

Ed enrolled in university to study communication arts. He worked hard. He knew no other way. The nuns had made sure of that.

He graduated in 1962 and became a regular in the Shea and Yankee Stadium press boxes, where he interviewed the players. Years later, a young Mets rookie, Ron Swoboda, took Ed by the hand. Together they walked the warning track around the field. Ed traced his fingers along the outfield wall. His fingers, sensitive to reading Braille, seemed to read the history of the park. Every dent, scratch and chip he touched meant something to him.

Later that year, Ed married. He and his wife had two sons – Eddie and Chris. Sadly, at a very young age, their mother left forever. Ed had to raise his two sons alone. With the strength he learned years ago at St. Joseph’s, Ed took on the task. He taught his sons to be strong.

It was not uncommon for the two young boys to see Billy Martin in their home. “Huge stars like Mickey Mantle would tell me my dad was their hero,” Chris was quoted as saying.

Years later, a friend came to Ed and told him about a nurse, Allison Pfeifle, whose detached retina left her legally blind and unable to continue her profession. He asked Ed to speak to her.

Ed and Allison talked on the phone for many years before meeting in person. They were baseball fanatics and spent their first date at Shea Stadium.

On March 10, 2006, at Yankee Stadium, Allison walked from the dugout to home plate and became Ed’s new bride.

With his two sons at his side, Ed started a new life, at the place he holds so dear, and with the woman who captured his heart.

Ed, now 68, was quoted saying, “Baseball took my sight, but it also gave me my life.”

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I sat in shock. Could it be? I mailed Chris back and told him about the seats we couldn’t use that rainy night.

He confirmed, his father was the man who provided those unused seats. Chris told me later, “They are the first couple in the 80 year history of the stadium to have the honor of marrying there.”

I finally knew the story. It was sure worth waiting for.
Michael T Smith

ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Michael lives in Caldwell, Idaho with his wonderful wife Ginny. He writes in his spare time and is completing a collection of his stories to be called, “From My Heart to Yours.” Michael writes inspirational stories in his spare time. To read more of Michael’s stories or to contact him, go to http://ourecho.com/biography-353-Michael-Timothy-Smith.shtml#stories

It Was Just Tragic

April 16th, 2012 by admin


Thought this poster puts things in perspective for today.

Happy Birthday To Our Daughter Amber

April 5th, 2012 by admin


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This is a special post for our Daughter Amber. She is 33 today and is a very special person to us and a lot of other people, especially her son Braxton.

Your The Best

 

Patterson’s Adopt A New Dog

February 20th, 2012 by admin


Train Pet Dog - Dog Grooming

Well, it had to happen! Carol and I went to see a couple of dogs at the PetsMart in Winder on Saturday. One of them we had seen before, Bosley, in the Barrow paper but it looked like someone had adopted him but that did not work out. Good for us though!

Then on last Thursday he was back in the paper, so on Friday morning I called to check up on him and he was to be at the PetsMart on Saturday the 18th. I had an appointment in Atlanta and when I came back home, Carol had gone and seen Bosley (Tibetan Spaniel Mix) and Bailey (A Longhair Dachshund).

A person from Pup and Cat Company http://www.pupandcatco.com/, the adoption person came to our house to check us out. It seems that Carol had filled out the paperwork to start the process to adopt one of them. She said they were both still in Winder if I wanted to see them so off we went to see them at PetsMart.

When we got there I saw Bosley as we walked up but Carol wanted me to see Bailey. I kinda liked him but when I went over to see Bosley he had the same coloring as Spiegel. Well that sealed the deal for me. The only thing left was for them to check with our vet to see about how we took care of Spiegel.

We got a call on Sunday pm and we were almost ready to go on the adoption. I got a call on Monday am and was to  meet at the Winder Corners Animal Hospital to do all the paperwork to adopt Bosley. After signing the papers I took him to my car and he jumped right into the seat, seems he loves to ride, and we headed home. I later took him to PetsMart at the Mall of Georgia to get him some food, bowl and treats.

We both believe that we were blessed to have Bosley and it is freaky that he is the same colorings as our Beloved Spiegel.

Spiegel Clone But Male

Just Gotta Love This Face!

 

Don’t Miss Any Opportunity To Sing Out Loud!

February 2nd, 2012 by admin


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Life is just too short.

So pay attention to the picture below.

The meaning is deeper than you can imagine.

All Together Now!

Happy Birthday To Carol Patterson

January 25th, 2012 by admin


Wishing Carol a very Happy Birthday Today. It is not how old you are it is how you feel that counts. This photo taken by Bill and is one of his all time favorites of his wife.

The Best Wife Ever!

Stop SOPA and PIPA

January 18th, 2012 by admin


STOP

SOPA

and

PIPA

Two bills before Congress, known as the Protect IP Act (PIPA) in the Senate and the Stop Online Piracy Act (SOPA) in the House, would censor the Web and impose harmful regulations on American business. Millions of Internet users and entrepreneurs already oppose SOPA and PIPA.

Call your Congressman

http://www.house.gov/representatives/find/

 and Senators today.

http://www.senate.gov/general/contact_information/senators_cfm.cfm

 

Happy 2012

January 1st, 2012 by admin


Welcome To 2012

Until It Snows

December 30th, 2011 by admin


UNTIL IT SNOWS 
By Bob Perks

I love the quiet snow brings. My world is loud and busy.

Until it snows.

I love the pure, white satin finish snow brings. My world is dusty, dirty
and very dull since summer faded leaving me longing for rose
colored days and lilac scented nights. Its stays that way too long.

Until it snows.

I love the peace that snow brings. It makes me stop and think
about peaceful things. My world is not peaceful.

Until it snows.

I love the memories that snow brings. I see the joy of Christmas in
the falling flakes and hear the laughter of children in the piling up of
snow. My world needs joy and laughter more. It lacks so much.

Until it snows.

I love the contrast that snow brings. We get so spoiled with rainbows
and flowers. We are bombarded with images, and flashing, brilliant,
sparkling lights. Black, white, brown and gray limit us and force us to
find the beauty in simple things. My world is overwhelming.

Until it snows.

I love the “slow” that snow brings. Rushing here and going there
never really gets me anywhere. My life is hurried, rushed and moving
too fast through drive thru windows, passing lanes, speed check outs
and express, priority mail.

Until it snows.

Yes, I take so much for granted and lose myself in having too
many choices. In my wanting more of life, I find what I have to
be too much and not enough at the same time.

Until it snows. 

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Bob’s signature story, “I Wish You Enough,” has been released by Thomas Nelson Publishers and features a collection of his stories based on the eight wishes expressed in the original story. His inspiring true stories are based on the people he meets in his travels. Bob’s unique perspective on life makes him “the philosopher of everyday moments.”  For more information visit his website at: http://www.IWishYouEnough.com or email Bob your comments to: perksblog@hotmail.com

In Memory of Christopher Lee Patterson

December 22nd, 2011 by admin


Today is the saddest Day of the year for the Pattersons. On this day 12 years ago Christopher left us at 16:30 at the age of 17,  from injuries received from a terrible auto accident. Everyone misses him very much. This photo of Christopher at Christmas taken in 1994 with him holding his dog Spiegel (who left us at the age of 17 also on the Day before Father’s Day this year. This Christmas is a lot sadder with her gone also.

Christopher Lee Patterson and Spiegel